Private • Christ-centered • 90-day one-on-one mentoring

PRESSURE.
CONFUSION.
DISCONNECTION.
BREAK THE CYCLE
IN 90 DAYS.

You're trying to create a better future. You're pursuing Jesus. You're trying to lead your family. But work, relationships, and everyday demands are exhausting. You aren't finding the answers you need in church, on YouTube, or by binging podcasts. You don't feel powerful, and you know you should.

If you're tired of trying to sort through the heavy pressure by yourself, let's fix the root of the problem.

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Trevor and Bridgett Dunbar together
Trevor & Bridgett Dunbar
STRONGER FAITHCONNECTED FAMILYGREATER FREEDOM
Does this sound familiar?

YOU KNOW WHAT MATTERS.
LIFE STILL FEELS HEAVY.

You want a closer connection with God and more confidence in your own decisions.

You care deeply about your spouse, children, and the people closest to you—yet some relationships feel strained or distant.

You work hard, but it's difficult to see a way to create more freedom for yourself and your family.

You've chosen to pursue truth, whether you're still attending church or have already left.

When the most important relationships in your life are out of alignment, the pressure can show up everywhere.

It can change how you think, how you feel, and how you show up.
“Since working with Trevor, he’s helped me unlock things that had been preventing me from living out my calling.”
Photo of James OhJames Oh · Previous mentoring experience
“Bridgett has a gentle way of calling me out on old patterns of thinking and bringing me back to the truth of who I am and what I’m capable of.”
Photo of Julia K.Julia K. · Previous mentoring experience
Your transformation

MOVE FROM THE TRIFECTA OF INSANITY
TO THE TRIFECTA OF POWER

Over 90 days, we help you move from pressure, confusion, and disconnection to peace, clarity, and connection.

FROM THIS
The Trifecta of Insanity graphic supplied by Trevor
THE OUTLIER ENGINEYour 90-day process
→
TO THIS
The Trifecta of Power graphic supplied by Trevor
PEACE · CLARITY · CONNECTION
STRONGER FAITH · CONNECTED FAMILY · GREATER FREEDOM
The Outlier Advantage
The power to create your own opportunities and gain greater control over your future.
The 90-Day Outlier Activation

PRIVATE MENTORING.
PERSONAL. PRACTICAL. CHRIST-CENTERED.

This is not a generic program or a one-size-fits-all process. It is 90 days of direct personal mentoring with Trevor and/or Bridgett, built around your real life, your actual pressure points, and the changes that need to happen now.

12 private mentoring sessionsPersonal one-on-one sessions across 90 days focused on your life, relationships, decisions, and next steps.
Trevor and/or BridgettYou will work directly with Trevor, Bridgett, or both, depending on what is the best fit for your situation.
Between-session supportPrivate support between calls so you are not left alone trying to process everything by yourself.
Practical next stepsEvery conversation is designed to help you move toward greater peace, clarity, connection, stronger faith, a connected family, and greater freedom.
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See and hear it for yourself

REAL STORIES FROM REAL PEOPLE.

These videos are from Trevor's earlier prayer, mentoring, and leadership work. They give you a chance to hear from people directly.

What others have shared

PEOPLE WE'VE HAD THE PRIVILEGE TO WORK WITH.

These words come from Trevor's and Bridgett's previous mentoring, prayer, and personal-guidance work. They are not testimonials from the newly packaged 90-day program.

“Since working with Trevor, he’s helped me unlock things that had been preventing me from living out my calling.”
Photo of James OhJames Oh
“Bridgett has a gentle way of calling me out on old patterns of thinking and bringing me back to the truth of who I am and what I’m capable of.”
Photo of Julia K.Julia K.
“When Trevor prayed for me, it was one of the most tangible experiences of God’s presence I can remember.”
Photo of Greg SwaffordGreg Swafford
“She has a way of creating a safe presence to just be me and to be known.”
Photo of Brionna A.Brionna A.
“She provides tangible and practical guidance in helping you explore and understand who God is and your purpose.”
Photo of Sammie R.Sammie R.
“The most incredible thing you’ll experience with Trevor is the prayer time.”
Photo of Jeremy MyersJeremy Myers
Trevor and Bridgett Dunbar portrait
Meet your mentors

TREVOR & BRIDGETT DUNBAR.

We're authors, entrepreneurs, parents, and co-founders of The 13th Tribe®. Our experience spans faith, family, leadership, business, painful losses, and rebuilding through major life changes.

Trevor is a retired firefighter lieutenant and a father of five. Bridgett brings her own experience in spiritual formation, personal growth, and helping people find clarity in who they are.

We've learned firsthand what it takes to make hard decisions, rebuild relationships, and pursue a life guided by conviction. We bring that lived experience to private mentoring.

Our work is Christ-centered and grounded in real life. We meet each person where they are and work with them on what matters most.

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Common questions

BEFORE YOU BOOK A CALL.

Is this for men, women, or couples?

The core experience is one-on-one mentoring for adult men or women. Trevor and/or Bridgett will work with you based on your needs and fit. If involving your spouse makes sense, that can be discussed during your call.

What if I'm still attending church?

You're welcome. We work with people who are pursuing Jesus in truth—whether they still attend church but feel dissatisfied or have already left the institutional setting.

Is this in person or online?

The core experience is 90 days of private, live mentoring sessions and between-session support. Any in-person arrangements would be discussed separately.

What do we talk about during the call?

We'll hear what's happening in your life, what you'd like to change, and whether this 90-day experience is a fit. We'll explain who you'll work with and the enrollment details privately.

Is this therapy?

No. This is Christ-centered personal mentoring and spiritual formation. It isn't mental health treatment, marriage therapy, or emergency support.

Your next step

YOU KNOW SOMETHING NEEDS TO CHANGE.
LET'S TALK ABOUT WHAT THAT LOOKS LIKE.

Have a private conversation with Trevor and/or Bridgett about where you're feeling pressure, what you want to change, and whether the 90-Day Outlier Activation is right for you.

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One-on-one mentoring · 90 days · Private enrollment conversation